Alot of my male folks, go approaching tons of women with hopes that approaching alot of females, would help them get rid of their approach anxiety. Trust me that's not the solution . It may work for some men, but it doesn't get rid of approach anxiety in all men. It can also be considered a temporary cure, as going weeks without approaching a woman, may have the nerves come back as strong as ever. That's because this method doesn't tackle FEAR at the source. It may sound harsh but a weak mind is the singular reason guys get nervous approaching beautiful women. It's the same reason guys lack confidence and feel insecure. A strong mind is required to stop negative thoughts from looping over and over again in your mind. As a weak mind can't stop the paralyzing feelings of anxiety and nervousness in your body. Note : This has nothing to do with your level of intelligence, or level of education. To eliminate the feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, ...

Building rapport is essential, as very few females would jump into kissing a total stranger. Even for a night stand rapport has to be built. The only difference being the time frame in which it's built. Rapport is built by developing mutual trust, friendship, and affinity with someone who used to be a a total stranger. It's beneficial in various aspects of life. Building rapport can start with something as simple as a wink & "hello" to start up a conversation. READ: Get Her in the Mood . During these conversations, it's necessary to maintain a healthy eye contact. Staring at lustfully, like checking out boobs & ass will only make you come across as perverted and thirsty. And will make your target uncomfortable. Which is contrary to what you are trying to achieve. A healthy way to keep eye contact is by looking at you target's eyes, which portrays confidence. And everyone agrees that confidence is attractive. In the course of convo, another ...

You may or may not have noticed this, but the stronger your presence, the more comfortable women will feel around you. Maybe they feel protected or maybe they just take on your vibe. I just know that is how it works. Presence is created by limiting unintentional (nervous) words or movements. W hen you limit your unintentional (nervous) words and movements you render your intentional words and movements more discernible. You will have uncluttered your communication. This will make your expressions more powerful and easily understood. This is presence. READ: Hacks For Comfident Body Language. Use a mirror or even better, videotape yourself talking for five minutes about your day. You will probably hate your voice - everyone does. But you will discover many things about yourself that you did not know were there.  Body position:  Its great to look relaxed. In general taking up more space makes you look more confident, while being hunched into yourself makes yo...

Some folks would say that we are genetically predisposed to “alpha” or “beta” roles within interactions. However, there are conscious things you can do to improve your confidence and interaction skills. Making small things add up to large ones. Here are small suggestions. Taken on their own they are insignificant details, but used together, they are a reset of your personality.     1. Replace the word 'need' with 'want'. You don't NEED a ride to the airport you WANT one. No matter how desperate you are, you want, maybe you like but you never need. Stagger out of the dessert, "I want a glass of water." Own it. Saying ‘need’ only implies there  is a bigger, more important authority behind your request. ‘Need’ is the word of the weak. Instead use the word ‘want’. That says you are important enough to ask for it on your own authority.     2.  Limit modifiers. I’m guilty of this one. I catch myself saying that movie was pretty cool instead of...

What women truly want is a man. A man that can lead them towards what they want from life. Not by being an aggressive, arrogant jerk but by remaining strong, confident, and comfortable no matter what they throw your way.  The want a man, who gets them, understands them, leads them, and can stay grounded in their moments of confusion.  That is a man any woman would happily be attached to, and feel satisfied that she is getting everything she ever wanted from and more. Now that we got that out of the way, I am going to show you what exactly that looks like. Here’s how to be the strong man women want. Women like their men strong, their drawn to that male essence. A cave man stays in control and stands for his beliefs, family and his woman. And makes life easier for her, she needs someone to look out for her, so for her having a strong man to take care of her and protect her, can be a good thing. Helping...

Breaking the touch barrier doesn't seem like a big deal. But it's a true thing to say, women sometimes tend to be hephaphobic around strangers, mostly that of the opposite sex. But once you establish physical contact in that relationship with them, there is no turning back. Because from that point it will be expected and welcomed. As you begin conversation with a woman you start out at a short distance from one another. As you continue your conversation, you want to move closer to her. But it's important she initiates the closeness. Because coming aggressive will only make her put up her defenses. And trust me, there's 0% chance you'll like it. She needs to feel comfortable around you before letting you in too close. If she eventually leans towards you to tell you something, you should take the chance to get closer to her and close the distance. That's a pretty cool way get closer without coming too strong. And also during conversation if she touches you...

Is it just me, or does every man think of " coitus interruptus " as a self inflicted torture mechanism? Apparently, we have to sacrifice something for the greater good. Pull out , the withdrawal of the penis from the vagina before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy have men missing out on all of the good stuff associated with reaching complete climax . Thereby interrupting the fun. But who says it's too much of a price to escape baby mama drama, or having your heart in the cloud until she finally finds the period about to go missing? It is important for a person to be aware of their own sexual response to know w hen they are about to ejaculate, to effectively carry out coitus interruptus. This method of pregnancy prevention isn't foolproof , since while sex your pre-ejaculate might contain contain eager sperm cells. And also since you are most likely " skin diving " you're at risk of STDs .  So you can either abstain from sex, and miss out...

Body language is said to be the most important factor when approaching women, as women are really sensitive to it. A woman literally smell low self-esteem from a thousand miles. And it's a huge turn-off. It's certainly not about coming up with a killer opening line. If you are one of my brothers who think, it's all about that killer pick-up line, you certainly need a rethink. I'm not saying that pick-up lines are useless, but you need a confident body language to go with. Note: The non-verbal has more influence on your approach than the verbal. But in alliance, they are unstoppable. When meeting a woman for the first time, it takes less than 5 minutes to build 90% of her opinion about you. And that's called her "first impression of you".  Every second in this 5 minutes determines if should want to talk to you some other time, or you're just a fail course like the hundreds of men she has me in the past. But a firm body language goes a long way. A...

Hot women have been deprived of genuine interest . Guys act creepy and fake around them. They are rarely encountered by men willing to bring to the surface their real potentials. Because all that goes through his mind is " the hit ". And trust me, that's a very wrong drive for wooing women. She builds her defenses. Far away from reach, to keep these jerks off. To make matters worse they are rewarded for being fake, and consequently placed on pedestal of false worship which obviously fades away after "the hit". And she knows her place on the pedestal is temporary, so she enjoys her reward while it lasts. Giving up on the thoughts of genuine interests. Low self esteem guys are willing to accept any of her behavior just for her looks. They buy her expensive things, and kiss her a$s because they feel lucky just being in her company. She considers their hand outs unfulfilling and shallow. This is not what she want, but what's she supposed to do but confo...

Flirting is nothing but a conversation between two people, in which they drop subtle cues of their attraction to each other.  A conversation is meant to be  fluid in nature, possessing the back and forth flow. Hence, a conversation can not be scripted.  You can't plan  to say something, anticipating how your target would respond. What you say is determined by what she says. This way a fluid conversation is maintained.  The best way to approach a woman is to do so,  with intent of only having a genuine interaction, not getting worked up about the outcome of convo. A bit of role-play, story-telling and a "back and forth" occasional question and answer can get you started for a fascinating interaction with her.  Story-telling:. Here's something to help give you a headstart, when you're out of ideas to get things started. Normally I'll approach a woman and introduce myself, I might just ask an interesting  to get things going. Her answer sh...